Wellness Balance You Blog Image - Trouble With Stress

The Trouble with Stress

We often underestimate the power of and the trouble with stress. We like to see stress as natural, and even helpful, in being productive in our day-to-day lives. But the positive effects of stress, like goal orientation, motivation, and even intensified memory or cognitive responses are most beneficial in small doses. Many of us have built up a tolerance to living with constant, heightened stress levels, and the temptation to see this as a positive or heroic trait has reduced our natural desire to respond to it. Instead of recognizing and reacting to the core ‘fight or flight’ survival response that stress provides, many of us function with heightened stress for long durations of time without realizing that living under continued high stress can have dire health consequences.

How Stress Works

You’ve probably heard this before, and you’ve certainly felt it: the pounding heart, the rushing sounds in your ears, and an acute and intense desire for action when something has caught you completely off guard. 

When your brain perceives some kind of stress, be it your move in a basketball game, a heated argument, or stepping off a busy street, it starts producing an influx of epinephrine, norepinephrine, and cortisol hormones. This flood of chemicals produces a variety of reactions to respond to the stress: increased heart rate, increased blood pressure, and an acute focus on taking whatever action is necessary to stay safe. 

Stress can be brought on by a variety of internal and external factors, and it can be a very healthy reaction and necessary to maintain our survival. It’s when you remain in a state of heightened stress for prolonged periods of time, that the effects of stress on your system can become a real medical problem.

How much stress is too much stress?

Life events, changes in lifestyle, work, family, or even shifting responsibilities such as child or parent care, relationships, and work can directly affect feelings of overwhelm. When the amount on our plate reaches a place of critical mass, we experience overwhelm. That experience can present itself in many ways that signify stress. 

Emotional stressors like these, which remain for a period of weeks, months, or even years, can become detrimental to your immune system, and your overall health. Being able to recognize our own stress signals is the first step to finding ways to cope with stress, and dissipate it, to return to a healthy state that will enable you to work through the demands placed on you.

Recognizing Stress Responses

There are many ways that stress expresses itself. While some might be more familiar to you than others, a person can experience some or all of these at different times. But, multiplied sources of ongoing stress can lead to larger health issues. If chronic stress is not dealt with effectively, it can become debilitating, leading to an inability of what we want to do most: thrive at work and in life with our family and friends. 

Being able to recognize the sensations of stress is the first step to being able to discuss them with your family doctor and your personal health team. Then, they can help you find ways to cope with stress effectively.

Stress can feel like:

  • Frenetic energy or restlessness
  • Fatigue, or trouble sleeping or staying awake
  • Digestive issues, changes in appetite, over or under eating
  • Change in the use of addictive substances like alcohol, tobacco, or drugs 
  • Inability to concentrate or complete tasks
  • Increased frequency of colds or other illnesses like autoimmune disease flares
  • Heightened anger or impatience
  • Headaches, migraines, body aches
  • Increased irritability, anger, or anxiety
  • Lack of motivation, depression, sadness
  • Inability to catch your breath, panic attacks 
  • Change in sex drive, social withdrawal 
  • Feelings of being ‘burnt out’

That’s me! What should I do?

First, know that everyone experiences high stress at one time or another. You are not alone. 

Second, understand that stress is manageable and that there are many tools to help hone in on treatments and actions that will support you in managing yours. 

There’s no need to wait until stress is overwhelming to start practicing stress management techniques. In fact, the Mayo Clinic recommends including a few key practices to help manage everyday stress, so that if major stress should arise, you’ll have a few great tools already in your tool box. 

Some people find great benefits in:

  • Effective, gentle breathing and stretching techniques
  • Tai Chi or gentle yoga (such as Hatha, Yin, or Restorative, not Vinyasa, Ashtanga, or Power)
  • Exercising regularly, choosing gentle forms of movement, and temporarily reducing or eliminating cardio-intensive exercise (which increases the cortisol response) 
  • Allotting quiet time for yourself, to think, journal, meditate, or engage in a creative activity that you enjoy
  • Implement a restful sleep routine that makes a conscious effort towards reducing screen time and stimulants before bed, and gives you the opportunity to regulate the amount and timing of your sleep hours – the mind and body heal when at rest

Let the mind and body work together

Remember that stress starts in the brain, and then exhibits in the body. It is not a form of weakness; rather, it is a normal psychological and physical response to situations that require our attention. And, the way that we can best manage stress is by paying attention and caring for the mind as well as the body, holistically. Some potential stress diagnostic and stress management tools your practitioner could suggest include:

  • Hormone testing and re-balancing with natural hormone treatment with Bioidentical hormones
  • Methods of identifying and eliminating stressors
  • Natural, non-addictive, sleep training 
  • Building inroads to create family support 
  • Natural nutritional supplements such as:
    • Magnesium Glycinate
    • B vitamins 
    • Adrenal support and adaptogenic supplements (like ashwagandha, Korean ginseng, licorice root, or Schisandra)
    • My very own Simmer Down is a comprehensive formula that supports a healthy stress response
  • Properly administered essential oil blends, such as:
    • Chamomile
    • Frankincense
    • Lavender
    • Lemon balm
    • Rose
    • Vanilla
    • Valerian  

It’s never too early to start learning how to identify and cope better with stress. After all, life is full of surprises and sometimes stress is a part of that.

Have you tried any of these stress management tools? Which ones have worked best for you? Which new ones will you try? 

If you find that your stress management toolkit isn’t providing what you need, let’s talk! I would love to support you in finding your best health.


And Get Exclusive Access To Her Basic Wellness Plan